申命记 20:7

谁聘定了妻，尚未迎娶，他可以回家去，恐怕他阵亡，别人去娶。』

shuí pìn dìng le qī ， shàng wèi yíng qǔ ， tā kě yǐ huí jiā qù ， kǒng pà tā zhèn wáng ， bié rén qù qǔ 。』

What man is there who has pledged to be married to a wife, and has not taken her? Let him go and return to his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.”